Lessons learned: Moderation not Denial
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I thought I would share some of the lessons that I have learned in my weight loss and fitness journey. I’ve lost over 100 pounds now so I guess I must have learned one or two things.
The first major lesson I learnt that I would like to share is that is that a life without chocolate cake is a life not worth living.
In the past I would go on diets etc. where you had to be perfect with your eating and never have anything that was not allowed.
I don’t know about you folks but for me as soon as a food is forbidden then it becomes very desirable and I become miserable when I can’t have it.
For example, I followed a plan where you ate very strictly for 6 days a week and then had a cheat day where you could eat what you like. Oh boy, I lived for that cheat day and I fantasised about it all week long. Then on the cheat day I would eat like there was no tomorrow. That doesn’t work. It doesn’t promote healthy habits that you can keep up in the long term. Did I lose weight? Yes. Was I healthier. No. What eventually happened was that one of the cheat days never ended and I ate nonstop for about two months resulting in a regain of most of the weight I lost.
So now I don’t follow a diet. I have a healthy lifestyle where I eat mainly fresh fruit and vegetables with the odd piece of chocolate cake thrown in. The key for me is moderation. I have one piece of cake rather than the whole cake (I kid you not) and I factor that into how much I’ve eaten for the day. So if I do have a piece of cake then I run a bit more or I have a smaller dinner.
The amazing thing for me now is that it took me so long to realise that moderation is the key to healthy eating.
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